You don't repair that relationship by sitting down and talking about trust or making promises. Actually what rebuilds it is living it and doing things differently – and I think that is what is going to make the difference.
There is an inverse relationship between reliance on the state and self-reliance.
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The way I become friends with somebody is a slow process. You can't just spill your guts and tell them everything about yourself and expect them to listen and understand you because you don't know them. It's the same thing with a relationship.