What I think we fear is rapid pronounced and uncontrollable changes to ourselves and because of this we have a form of personality inertia – something that resists rapid change.
Maybe I fear things going wrong so much that I pre-empt them by not getting excited about them when they appear to be. going well.
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I think masculinity is bravado against the mystery of the universe of women. It's just a fear of not knowing what women have that's so powerful. It's this shield they put up to try to get closer.