A relationship is lovely if you're happy comfortable in it and you really like the person. I can think of nothing better. But there's nothing worse than having a relationship in which you feel no interest.
So then the relationship of self to other is the complete realization that loving yourself is impossible without loving everything defined as other than yourself.
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