A band is not a marriage. There are no oaths of allegiance. If you feel your life will be better served by splitting up the group you've got to do it – but of course it does cause problems.
No Government has the moral authority to dismantle the universally understood meaning of marriage.
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Obviously the anti-ERA people are tickled about my ordeal because it proves that the ERA breaks up families. When they point out that feminism is a dangerous thing I just say marriage is pretty precarious too.